Hey there beautiful!
Before diving into the truth about the realities of dating as a Grown-Ass Woman, I wanted to introduce myself to you and share with you what you can expect from me going forward.
I am Anita Charlot, Your Dating, Relationship, and Marriage Coach that has been in the business of love since 1999 and the CEO of Relationship Architect Academy, the first online dating, relationship and mastery school of its kind, dedicated to teaching women how to attract and maintain authentic relationships via spiritual and practical concepts.
I am also the author of the Amazon Best Seller, The 5 Phases of Dating ~ The Grown-Ass Woman’s Guide to Attracting and Maintaining Authentic Relationships, the creator of the Keeping It Sexy – 5 Day Challenge and a Keynote Speaker. Now that the formalities are out of the way, let me jump right into the meat of this post.
Why should you listen to me about dating, relationships, and marriage?
After many failed relationships with men and surviving an abusive marriage, being a lover of love, I decided that my heart would be a lot safer on the other side. I totally thought it would be completely different; that women would understand women and that I would not encounter the same pain I had while dating men. Well, to my surprise, the pain was not only different, but it also hurt a lot worse. Trying to understand my own heart and emotions while trying to understand and protect the heart and emotions of the women I dated was entirely too much for me to handle.
I searched high and low for someone to help me grow through my past relationship pain, show me how to love without losing myself and teach me how to pick the right one BEFORE I invested my heart. Since I couldn’t find anyone, I decided to become what I NEEDED for other women. Taking the time to really get to know me, study relationships and how women in particular function in them emotionally, listening to the men and how our emotions affect our ability to truly connect with them and then learning how a Grown-Ass woman actually attracts and maintains the man that is perfectly imperfect for her, has made all the difference for me and for the women that I serve.
I have since attracted the man that is perfectly imperfect for me and we continue to grow strong as individuals and as a married couple; 12 years and counting.
More on that later.
What can you expect?
My articles will share with you, from the perspective of a woman that has dated on both sides of the fence, the things that I have learned along the way, case studies from my clients that show what is possible when you truly take the time to build a relationship with yourself FIRST and then how to identify the spirit of the person that is perfectly-imperfect for you.
Honey, I’m going to love all over you from these articles as well as give you a bit of “tough love” along the way. There will be days when you don’t agree and others when you are nodding your head in agreement…either way, you are guaranteed to walk away with plenty of “food for thought.”
Looking forward to sharing with you and exposing more of how to get out of our own way and attract the quality of love that we REALLY want.
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Coach Anita Charlot
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